When we know someone hates us and has done many things that cause us to think and say bad about them. It can be slandering or diminishing though we may not want to harm them or hurt them. But we can still tend to show how we are right and they are wrong.
We need not do so. We need to forgive and of course, discern the situation but by no means we should go on doing that which is unbiblical…
We usually want to hide our faults and mistakes under curtains of someone’s else failures and Wrong. We try to feel good about ourselves and convince ourselves that we are better of. It Is always better to think about your Sins and weakness and work on them by God’s grace and at the same time help fellow brother if possible, to be corrected, confronted, and comforted. But always make sure you stand right with God before correcting someone else. Don’t be proud, judgemental, and Angry but Humble loving truth speaker. If you’ve been hurt then it will be so hard. Pray to God and read his word. Be wise and discerning.
If they listen, Praise God, If they repent and return then Hallelujah and Glory to God’s Alone. If they Don’t listen to you and want to talk or even doing things to the problem you. Don’t be Hateful, worried, or sorrowful. Remember, God is in control. Pray for yourself if your heart is not willing to do any of the above. Love God, Love Others and even your enemy.
Instead, we are asked in the Bible, to love our enemies and pray for them.
Living W/ Creator 